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zutarapie:

When people think Zuko is ugly for having a scar

When people don’t like Zuko because he can be an asshole

When people don’t like Zuko because he was the villan at first

When people don’t like Zuko because of his attitude

When people don’t like Zuko

"I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”
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#613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

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Donald Sutherland wins Choice Movie Villain

fishingboatproceeds:

aliewa:

grouchythefish:

ladyofpurple:

I like how the original title for The Fault in Our Stars is all poetic and then the Norwegians just translated it to “fuck destiny” and I think that’s beautiful

Aw man, I thought for sure this had to be bullshit but nope


Why is it always Norway

Norway, a nation where you can put the word “fuck” on the cover of a young adult novel.

fishingboatproceeds:

aliewa:

grouchythefish:

ladyofpurple:

I like how the original title for The Fault in Our Stars is all poetic and then the Norwegians just translated it to “fuck destiny” and I think that’s beautiful

Aw man, I thought for sure this had to be bullshit but nope

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Why is it always Norway

Norway, a nation where you can put the word “fuck” on the cover of a young adult novel.

bannablefannibal:

twinkdancy:

drhanniballecter:

likeamissile:

Do you ever just get really angry

This pleases me greatly.

NO DO U UNDERSTAND HOW FRUSTRATING GETTING THIS SCRIPT WOULD BE FOR AN ACTOR?
YOU ARE AMUSED
BUT YOU CAN’T ACTUALLY SHOW BEING AMUSED
LITERALY ONLY MADS COULD PULL THIS SHIT OFF IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY

When people say that Mads Mikkelsen’s performance wasn’t difficult because all he had to do was just be cold and not show any emotions.

bannablefannibal:

twinkdancy:

drhanniballecter:

likeamissile:

Do you ever just get really angry

This pleases me greatly.

NO DO U UNDERSTAND HOW FRUSTRATING GETTING THIS SCRIPT WOULD BE FOR AN ACTOR?

YOU ARE AMUSED

BUT YOU CAN’T ACTUALLY SHOW BEING AMUSED

LITERALY ONLY MADS COULD PULL THIS SHIT OFF IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY

When people say that Mads Mikkelsen’s performance wasn’t difficult because all he had to do was just be cold and not show any emotions.

ssjdebusk:

bloody-men-with-blue-eyes:

oomshi:

if you wouldn’t suck a dick for one million dollars you are lYING

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there will never be another spn reaction gif that rivals this one for accuracy

because I mean jesus 

hiccstridforever:

oneill5491:

The adorable kiss finally in glorious HD.

FUCK. HD KISS. DEAD.

darlarosa:

spicyshimmy:

ranger-sebastian-vael:

randompandemic:

flawlesspenis:

*DISAPPOINTMENT INTENSIFIES*



omfg.


please please please see above for clarification. this is in response to the claim that the only reason bioware includes LGBT representation in game is because LGBT folk are bribing them with sex. patrick weekes is shooting down that claim from critics offended by LGBT representation in video games; he is definitely not saying that LGBT people are attempting to bribe him for content they want with sex. just. as clarification! i think the point is the opposite of what it seems to be from the top two tweets, so!

The context is important people

darlarosa:

spicyshimmy:

ranger-sebastian-vael:

randompandemic:

flawlesspenis:

*DISAPPOINTMENT INTENSIFIES*

omfg.

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please please please see above for clarification. this is in response to the claim that the only reason bioware includes LGBT representation in game is because LGBT folk are bribing them with sex. patrick weekes is shooting down that claim from critics offended by LGBT representation in video games; he is definitely not saying that LGBT people are attempting to bribe him for content they want with sex. just. as clarification! i think the point is the opposite of what it seems to be from the top two tweets, so!

The context is important people